Merry Christmas!
Watching “It’s a Wonderful Life” the night before Christmas is always special, and I am amazed at how a scene sticks out to me more than others.
This year, a few things I learned that I hadn’t seen before. Empathy and how precious time with others can be.
Here are a couple of thoughts:
Early in the movie George has just learned Mr. Gower's son has died.
He is shocked and sad. Most of all he is empathetic. Mr. Gower ends up slapping George on his ears so hard that they bleed. But George doesn't feel his own pain, he only sees Mr. Gower's pain. George has empathy.
The world needs more EMPATHY.
Later on, George is sitting with his Pops before going out for the night. His pops is trying to convince him to take over his business. Even in turning him down, George tells his dad, “Hey Pop, you want a shock? I think you're a great guy.”
These are the last words George will say to his father.
Even when it’s not convenient, never pass up the opportunity to tell those closest to you how much you love them.
Time and relationships are precious!
Later on, Uncle Billy loses the money that was to be deposited to the bank. This is a game changer! It obviously frustrates George and he takes it out on his family.
Instead of being mad at him, his children want to pray for him. They have learned empathy from who else? Their father!
And lastly, Potter is surprised that George is taking the blame for the lost money. Potter has no concept of sacrifice and empathy. He has all the money in the world and is the poorest man in town.
At the heart of this movie is a man who comes very close to ending his life. If you are hurting please know, you are not alone! Don't be afraid to ask for help.
George needed help in seeing how valuable he really is. He spent his whole life sacrificing and showing empathy to others. Sometimes we can’t see things that are right in front of us.
If you made it this far, Know this… You matter! Whether it is a listening ear, a hug, a meal, or even somewhere to lay your head, you will always have a place in the McGugan house.
Merry Christmas from the McGugans!
“Remember, no man is a failure who has friends”
Our eldest read about the true meaning of Christmas during one of our church’s Christmas gatherings. He was so excited to volunteer in this manner and practiced several times at home, ready to serve. When we arrived, the reality of the crowd set in. . . anxiety and uncertainty began to thrive. He got upset, but allowed his mother to pray over him. He readjusted his focus, and took the time to worship. He engaged each song, worshipping the King of Kings who came into the world for us as a lowly baby. When the music stopped, he stepped up to the plate with his daddy by his side.
Kyler’s response to yesterday’s reading of Luke 2 is a good reminder for me, and for you. When anxiety and uncertainty arise, put our focus on Jesus. Merry Christmas.